My friends reunited dating
Interestingly, what we've been taught to think of as a Green-Eyed Monster has an up-side: It can prevent a beloved partner from straying, and it can express the depth of love to the other partner when we show some small amount of jealousy.
They often feel shielded from impropriety by happy existing marriages, their age (50, on average), and/or their spouse’s endorsement of the reconnection.They weren't puppy loves--just real love, really young.But because it happened so long ago, when the lovers were so young, many people later buy into the puppy-love excuse themselves."This can't hurt to look up so-and-so," they reason, "we were just kids; it wasn't real.And anyway, I'm happily married now." But neither their marital status nor the length of time since they saw their first love nor their current age stops them from engaging in full-blown torrid (and usually illicit) affairs.
But for the married among us, it may be best to keep those musings to ourselves. Nancy Kalish, the foremost research authority on lost and found love and its consequences, has long held data showing that even the happily married usually stray when they innocently rekindle a friendship with an old flame…particularly if that flame was their first love.